Virgil Abloh

I never met Virgil Abloh. I didn’t own anything from Off-White, the company he founded in Milan almost ten years ago. I’ve never met his wife, or his children, or anyone in his family. Yet when I heard of his passing yesterday, I felt an overwhelming sense of sorrow. Sorrow for his children and for his wife. Sorrow for his parents and his friends. Sorrow for the man himself, for the dreams he had that would be left unfulfilled. In that we can be certain: No matter what level of success someone achieves, there is always a plan to achieve, to experience, to witness. There is a plan for more.

It’s a peculiar thing to know of a person and to see a person would some regularity but to not know them. These are the characters in the script of our lives, and just as they play a role in our own life, we play the same role in the lives of others. As I write, there is some person that sees me on an almost daily basis, someone who doesn’t know me and never will, yet there I am, in the car or walking by, a part of their life without being part of it at all. Virgil was like that for me, as I’d see him on his boat and I’d see him at Harpoon Willies. I’d see him at tennis and I’d see him in his car or at breakfast. Once my wife saw him on our road, driving a Rolls Royce or maybe something else, my wife wasn’t so sure.

If you followed Virgil on social media, as I did, there were clues as to where he spent most of his time over the past few years. Posts from Milan and Paris and Mykonos, those places where the fashion icon did most of his business were obvious and common, but so were posts with fields in the background. Behind the wheel of a new 911, with Off-White gloves on and the tell-tale silo of a Wisconsin farm field just barely visible. Or a story with Virgil at the helm of his easily recognizable boat, the shimmering blue waters of Geneva Lake surrounding him.

A man I didn’t know from a world I don’t know anything about found peace in the place that I call home. A man who found fame and glory in dazzling European cities chose to spend much of his last few years at his home in Lake Geneva, battling a horrible disease in private, with class and dignity that I fear I do not possess. I’ve written often that I view the Lake Geneva real estate purchases of the rich and famous to be more noble than their outward appearance. What some see as ostentatious and exaggerated displays of indulgent wealth, I see as little more than a desire to achieve normalcy. It’s been that way in Lake Geneva for generations, and Virgil was just a man that found his way to Lake Geneva to enjoy time with his family. He was a man that I didn’t know, that I never met, but that I feel compelled to mourn all the same.

Image credited to Vigril Abloh’s Instagram

About the Author

I'm David Curry. I write this blog to educate and entertain those who subscribe to the theory that Lake Geneva, Wisconsin is indeed the center of the real estate universe. When I started selling real estate 27 years ago I did so of a desire to one day dominate the activity in the Lake Geneva vacation home market. With over $800,000,000 in sales since January of 2010, that goal is within reach. If I can help you with your Lake Geneva real estate needs, please consider me at your service. Thanks for reading.

5 thoughts on “Virgil Abloh”

  1. Beautiful essay about a beautiful man and a wonderful family. The lake is obviously a special place for so many of us and we are also blessed to be a part of lake living here and this small part in the middle of this large country. Thank you for remembering him in this fashion.

  2. I am Vs father n law, Thank you for remembering my son.I call him my son as I loved him like my own. He will be missed by many. But most of all by my beautiful daughter and his children.Virgil was here.

  3. I absolutely agree with these sentiments. Someone I knew of but did not know. We felt like he was part of our community for sure. He shared our special place and was someone of great talent and character. When it comes to Lake Geneva, Virgil was definitely here. Our deepest sympathies to his family.


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